Dear Word Detective: Does anyone know the origin of the phrase “to do something at a fiddler’s bidding,” meaning that you have been invited to participate in some activity as an afterthought and you refuse because you won’t do something “at a fiddler’s bidding”? — Lesley Shave.
Anyone? It’s just me and the chickens here, and the chickens have gone shopping. But thanks for a darn good question. You can have it back now, and I don’t ever want to see it again.
Just kidding. “Fiddler’s bidding” is a new one on me, which made it fun to research, and I’m sure the results will be fun to read, provided that your definition of “fun” in this case doesn’t include the words “definite answer.”
Since your email address indicates that you are in the UK, you’ve probably run into “fiddler’s bidding” more often than we do in the US, as it seems to be British (some sources say Scottish) in origin. Your definition of the phrase agrees with what I’ve found, except that refusal to accept the last-minute invitation isn’t necessary. One can show up for the party and still be miffed.
Even in the UK, however, the phrase must be fairly rare, because a Google search for “fiddler’s bidding” turns up a mere 26 hits, making for meager pickings. In her novel “Penny Plain,” Anna Buchan (1877-1948) describes a dinner party where few of the intended guests were able to come, and the substitutes, once they realized the reason for their presence, were not thrilled: “It was trying for everyone: for Mr. Elliot, who was left with the impression that people were apt to be engaged when asked to meet him; for the Jowetts, who now knew that they had received a “fiddler’s bidding,” and for Mr. Jackson, who felt that he was only there because nobody else could be got.” Elsewhere, a musical group called Wild Asparagus has recorded a song titled “Fiddler’s Bidding.” And just last year the question-and-answer feature of the Sydney (Australia) Morning Herald (called “Column 8″) went looking for the story of the term with several suggestions from readers but no definitive results.
Still, based on these and other sources, I think we can piece together the logic of “fiddler’s bidding.” The phrase probably dates back to the 17th or 18th centuries in England and Scotland, when wandering minstrels (often bearing fiddles) were apt to appear unannounced at one’s door offering a performance in return for coins or food. If the fiddler appeared at mealtime, and there happened to be a vacant seat at the table and enough food, he might be invited (“bid”) to join the party. Thus “fiddler’s bidding” came to mean a last-minute invitation to someone not on the original roster of guests.
I was brought up in Aberdeen, north-east Scotland and always thought that a Fiddler’s Bidding was when somone was invited to a party, dance etc. not because you particularly liked them but because they could play the fiddle and could add something to the event! So the Fiddler’s Bidding(Invitation) would end with ‘..and be sure to take your fiddle with you!’
So a Fiddler’s Bidding is when somone is invited to an event not for who they are but for some skill, expertise or ability they could bring with them! The answer above about the minstrel also seems plausible.
I agree with Charlie, but then I also grew up in Aberdeen.
My understanding from my grandparents’ explanation was that it was an invitation made, often last minute or as an after thought purely because you were needed to provide cheap entertainment or a skill of some sort.
My GPs were always miffed when only invited to an evening reception and not the ‘full’ wedding (ie the service, meal and party. Taking it that they were only there to swell numbers for the dancing. :-)
Also applies if you are invited along somewhere, like a picnic or a night out some where remote because you have a car or are willing to be the nominated driver.
I too am from Scotland. My understanding of the phrase ‘fiddler’s bidding’ is that you are invited along by the fiddler who is being paid to entertain at a gathering. You are therefore not on the true guest list but an apendage of the fiddler.
Modern day parlance would be that you are invited along by someone who is genuinely invited, if this make sense?.